Terry and Chris have been matched through Big Brothers Big Sisters for over three years, beginning in 2022. Nominated by Terry, Chris’s mom, Elizabeth, and their Match Support Specialist, Stevie, their relationship has grown into a strong, trust-filled connection rooted in curiosity, exploration, and consistent support. From the very beginning, Terry has been a steady and encouraging presence in Chris’s life, helping her navigate new experiences while building confidence and a sense of possibility for her future.
When they were first matched, Chris was 12 years old, and their time together centered on active, hands-on adventures, learning to bike, rollerblade, and explore new places. As Chris has grown, so has their relationship. Now 15, their time together reflects both her evolving interests and the realities of teenage life, balancing fun experiences like shopping and travel with meaningful conversations, academic support, and guidance through real-world challenges.
One of the most memorable moments in their Match was when Chris attended International Girls in Aviation Day in Milwaukee. Despite facing obstacles, she embraced the opportunity, exploring the airport and learning alongside new peers. The excitement and determination she showed that day reflected a growing passion for aviation, and Terry has continued to nurture that interest by connecting her to events and experiences that make her dream of becoming a pilot feel tangible and achievable.
While their adventures, from small-town explorations to BBBS activities like waterskiing, skiing, and scavenger hunts, have created lasting memories, the impact of their Match runs much deeper. Terry has helped Chris build confidence, step outside her comfort zone, and develop leadership skills. Whether it’s encouraging her to speak up, helping her navigate applications for academic programs, or supporting her in new environments, Terry consistently empowers Chris to believe in herself and her abilities.
Chris’s mom, Elizabeth, has seen a remarkable transformation in her daughter over the past three years. Once shy and quiet, Chris has grown into a more confident, curious, and engaged young person. She looks forward to her time with Terry, finding both joy and support in their relationship. Elizabeth also values the balance Terry brings, creating space for both fun adventures and focused time on schoolwork and personal growth.
The impact of this Match extends beyond Chris. Through her relationship with Chris, Terry has brought new ideas into her own workplace, helping launch a program that connects professionals with students to explore career pathways, an initiative that was even nominated for a community service award. Their Match has not only shaped Chris’s future but has also created ripple effects in the broader community.
Terry’s relationship with Chris and her family has become deeply meaningful, marked by trust and connection. From celebrating milestones like Chris’s quinceañera to sharing holidays together, their bond reflects something truly special. Together, they have built a relationship grounded in curiosity, encouragement, and care, one that continues to expand Chris’s world and help her see all that is possible for her future.